It seems not everyone is preoccupied with Passover right now. Last weekend I was informed of a posting on the New York Craigslist’s personals section in which a frum couple are seeking an 18 year old woman to join them in some form of erotic play.
This information would be interesting enough in itself – you may not be aware that there is a sub-culture of religious Jews who seek other religious Jews via Craigslist personals (and probably through other means) for different forms of casual sexual encounters who discreetly flag themselves to each other by using the term ‘frum’ in their listings – but this news was even more interesting because the
person who posted the ad had used my email banner graphic (the pink one above) as one of their images!
I still don’t quite know what to make of this development, but let’s be clear about this: SHOSHA PEARL HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS POSTING!!!!
It is fascinating to think that this is real people doing something that Shosha may one day write about. And while posting on Craiglist for a menage a trois may not be in line with what most of our rabbis would suggest for maintaining shalom bayit, there are no real halachic transgressions going on. I am sure there are many people who would believe that this is not appropriate behaviour for a ‘good Jew’, but if we are talking tachlis on an halachic level, there’s nothing technically wrong with it.
It’s up to you to decide whether you think such a thing is OK or whether it should stay with the confines of fantasy.
Either way, let me take this opportunity to wish you a chag kasher v’semeach.
5 Replies to “When Shosha Pearl met Craigslist”
Never heard of Frum. Where does it originate? I was finally able to log in by the way.
‘Frum’ is a Yiddish word meaning religious. It tends to be used by Ashkenazi Jews.
Glad you managed to log in! Welcome to the club – hope you enjoy the stories 🙂
Thanks for the info. 🙂
If there’s no actual sex going on, like intercourse etc. there’s no problem with Halacha, but there’s definitely some chumras, but I guess someone seeking others on Craigslist already doesn’t really keep all chumras…
Now re Shulem Bayis, if the spouse is interested as well I don’t see any problem with it, Aderabah, it can only spice up things!
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